Correct communication with people, and in particular with women, should be built according to some rules that are extremely important to follow for the successful result of such communication. I should note that in this article – how to communicate with a woman? I do not want to tell about the ways of flirting, but about the general rules of communication between a man and a woman, which can be applied in a variety of situations, it can be both business and personal.
These rules should rather even be applied if a man wants to win over a woman, and not push her away. The psychology of men and women has some differences, although there are some psychological moments that are inherent in both sexes, because if you generalize us as people, it turns out that we have a lot in common, and if you generalize as living beings, like animals, then there will be similarities and even more.
And yet, the same differences in the psyche of men and women must be known in order to build the most subtle dialogue, and not use exclusively natural instincts. So how exactly should we men communicate with representatives of the opposite sex, so that we are pleasant to them in such an interesting lesson?
First of all, we must be attentive in communicating with a woman, they feel attention very subtly, all the more if this attention in you will switch to someone else, and even more so if it will switch to another woman. You should not pay attention to other women, communicating with the one that interests you, first of all, especially if you just met. Be serious and attentive, dear men, do not question the exclusivity of your interlocutor, focus exclusively on her, control yourself. Further, it is very important to let the woman speak, while listening to her in the most attentive way.
I understand that some women can talk for hours, and in some cases it will be appropriate to stop her, but in most cases it is better not to do this, it does not take much time for most women, to fully state your position. Therefore, listening carefully to her, let her speak, show respect for her, pretend, if necessary, that you are interested in her words, you find them appropriate, interesting, and they even make you think, it certainly depends more on what was said.
Sometimes a woman is waiting for your emotions, which need to be shown, even if you did not have them, well, this is elementary politeness and a demonstration of understanding, applicable not only to communicating with women, but in general with all people.
Do not mock or condemn a woman, many men do so often, especially if you have a woman in front of you who begs for a similar attitude towards herself. Become an exception for her, do not react to her like everyone else, this is already interesting for her, and means that you see in her someone else, not like the others, and in her words, of course. If a woman is dissatisfied with you, or she expresses her outrage in relation to a situation, complains about something or somehow shows her emotions, you should not contradict her and oppose something to this.
You should not show your masculinity and start to argue, put forward arguments against what she says, and do not ask a woman to be strong, she is a woman. Agree, pity, reassure and support a woman if she shows her emotions, otherwise if you argue with her, it’s like throwing coal into the stove, from which the flame in it will flare up even more. So be a soft pillow, not a stone wall, for most cases this is the more appropriate response.
A woman often likes to convey her emotions to a man in order to induce him to action, while often sometimes exaggerating what she is talking about, this is done by her consciously or unconsciously, but quite often. Therefore, if you do not react violently and get turned on, but assure her that everything will be fine and you will solve all the problems, then control over the situation will already be in your hands. In this case, the woman will also get what she wants, the confidence that you will solve all her problems or simply sympathize with her, depending on what she actually wants, expressing her position emotionally too emotionally.
And on the other hand, you will not, like a chain dog, mindlessly react to her words, softening the situation both for her and for yourself. Such are the simple, but very important rules for communicating with a woman that men need to follow if they want to please a woman, understand her and, in general, keep their dialogue with her under control. As I said, this is applicable everywhere, without exception, any situation requires a man to do just that. Of course, if you want to seduce a woman, and consider your communication with the fair sex aimed only at this, then here you need to adhere to a number of rules that allow you to achieve this, but about them in the next articles.
In this one, I want to emphasize another interesting point that you probably noticed. Some methods of communication, which were considered here as methods of communication with a woman, may well be applied to men.
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Men also love to be listened to carefully when they show attention and respect to them, sometimes they even just need to speak out. And this tells us about the peculiarities of human psychology in general, only these moments are especially important for a woman, because they appeal to her feminine principle. But about what refers to the masculine principle, and how a woman should communicate with a man, I will tell you in my next article.
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