Some women are seriously convinced that men are only interested in sex and they don’t need anything else from women. And so they wonder why men love sex? And do they only love sex, or is there something else that attracts them to women?
Well, firstly, lovely women, men love not only sex, and from women, in addition to sex, they often need a lot more, which they also need, and that, by the way, not all women can give a man.
Secondly, women also love sex, though not always as much as men, but nevertheless, they need it, which is natural. Moreover, there are women who are simply obsessed with sex, they are able to squeeze all the juices out of a man, satisfying their need for sex. So women are also interested in sex.
And thirdly, why not love it, because it’s such a pleasure, which you can get without negative consequences for yourself if you deal with it with your loved one? Good sex is good for your health. But let’s still discuss this issue in more detail and find out why men like to have sex.
So what is it about sex that attracts men, what is so attractive about it? The first thing to say is that sex is pleasure. And sex with your beloved woman is a great, incomparable pleasure. You and I also know that all people strive for pleasure and avoid pain, so they love, including sex, and do not like, say, hard work.
Sex is attractive in itself, as a form of pleasure. And he is attractive, as I said, not only for men, but also for women. Although it is clear that there are many pleasures in life, including non-bodily ones. But sex is one of the most basic forms of pleasure available to most people. That’s why they love him.
Let’s now think about why sex is a pleasure? Or rather, why did nature do so, so that we get pleasure from sex? Well, we need to reproduce, rightly so, to continue our kind. Therefore, a man should be drawn to a woman, and a woman to a man. And it’s not just about pulling to chat about the weather, but for something more – for sex. In other words, people of different genders should be sexually attracted to each other in order to, pardon the expression, mate and reproduce.
After all, it is thanks to sexual intercourse that children are obtained. This means that a person must love the process of reproduction, and in order to love him, he must enjoy it. This is why we enjoy sex. So, for a person, sex can be just a pleasure, but for nature it is a way to reproduce us. As you can see, everything is simple and natural.
A man should be drawn to a woman, and a woman to a man. And it’s not just about pulling to chat about the weather, but for something more – for sex. In other words, people of different genders should be sexually attracted to each other in order to, pardon the expression, mate and reproduce. After all, it is thanks to sexual intercourse that children are obtained. This means that a person must love the process of reproduction, and in order to love him, he must enjoy it. This is why we enjoy sex. So, for a person, sex can be just a pleasure, but for nature it is a way to reproduce us. As you can see, everything is simple and natural.
Where there is no intimacy, there can be no perfect sex.Famous Quote
Only men, as fertilizers, are more concerned with this process itself, that is, having sex, and women, as mothers to a greater extent, also think about caring for their offspring, so they need men not only for sex, but also for relationships. They need a man – who will take care of them and their children, who will provide for their family and protect them from various threats.
Men, by their nature, strive to fertilize as many females as possible in order to make their offspring more numerous. This makes it more likely that it will survive. Rather, men can only think about the pleasure they get from sex with different women, while nature is doing its job. We just learned to deceive nature by using contraceptives to have fun and not have children. But at the same time, it is very difficult for us to deceive the sexual desire itself. And you don’t need to do this – you just need to take sex and its consequences more seriously.
It is also important to understand that sex is a need. This is not a game, not a man’s invention, not one of his invented desires, but a natural, pure natural need that must be satisfied in order to feel comfortable, both from a psychological and physical point of view. Whether we like it or not, we need to satisfy our needs, nature calls us to this.
Therefore, regardless of our attitude to sex – we will want to do it. After all, we must deal with it, because we must reproduce, we must continue our race, like all other living beings on this planet. Therefore, the need for sex is a very strong need. Not as strong, perhaps, as the need for self-preservation, but still very strong. No wonder Freud called the sexual instinct the basic instinct, because he saw what a strong influence it has on a person.
So from the point of view of physiology, everything is simple and clear – our libido [sexual attraction to a person of the opposite sex] is supported by hormones, they cause a person to desire to be sexually active. And this desire is sometimes very strong, if a person has not had sex for a long time.
Some people are ready for anything for sex, including violence. So men don’t just love sex – they need it. They must satisfy this need of theirs, as, indeed, women, just as they satisfy their needs for food, drink, sleep, and so on. Well, just as some people like to eat and sleep, and many other things that are related to their basic needs, some men, like some women, are very fond of sex, maybe a little stronger than necessary. There is nothing wrong with that.
Simply, I repeat – you need to engage in sex wisely, that is, thinking about the consequences. Then there will be no problems with him, or rather, with love for him.
The next thing that is important to know is that sex is not only physical, but also emotional pleasure, and even mental pleasure, when it comes to sex between people who love each other. We usually call this sex – making love. People are drawn to each other not only physically, but also emotionally and spiritually. True, much more often people feel mainly physical attraction to an individual of the opposite sex, as the most obvious, but nevertheless, many of us talk about our love for another person, because we experience this feeling, and not just about the desire to have sex with him… And even men, despite their polygamy, still prefer to have sex not just and not only with a sexually attractive woman, but with a woman with whom they have spiritual closeness.
Maybe not everyone wants it, but many. Or better, let’s put it this way – men can have sex with different women, but they make love only with the woman they love, to whom they feel not only sexual, but also emotional and spiritual attraction. So people are guided not only by animal instincts, but also by higher feelings.
Men also love sex because by their nature they are hunters and conquerors who are constantly striving for new victories and new conquests, and therefore for new sensations, new emotions. And in order to have sex with a woman, especially with a very beautiful woman, you first need to conquer, conquer, seduce, captivate, buy, and so on. This is a kind of hunting or even a game in which a woman is a prey, a reward. Rather, sex with a woman is prey, victory, reward, achievement. And having conquered one woman, a man turns his attention to other women whom he has not yet managed to conquer, that is, to persuade to have sex or, as they say, to drag into bed. Many men like this kind of hunting, for them it is an interesting, exciting, exciting activity.
Some men devote themselves completely to this emotional game. Usually, the more women a man has, the more confident he feels. In addition, a man displays a rather high and long-term sexual activity in relation to each new woman, female (read about the Coolidge Effect) precisely due to the fact that not only from a psychological, but also from a biological point of view, his desire for sex with different women is a natural desire for him. Only now I do not recommend men to justify their infidelity with this desire. Remember that you and I are not animals, but people who must, for their own good, limit ourselves in different desires.
In part, sex is also a way of socialization. After all, if a man enjoys great success with the opposite sex, if many women and girls show interest in him, and he has sex with many of them, at least presumably, then this success of his willy-nilly causes admiration and envy of other men – they begin to be more respectful of such an alpha male. This is how people are jealous of big money and power, this is how many women with whom a man has a very close relationship, other men can also envy. And this envy forces them to respect a strong and self-confident man who proves to himself and others that he is a real man, a real male.
Sometimes, however, such envy causes a feeling of anger and hatred for such a man, and even some attempts on the part of other men to harm him. But there is nothing to be surprised at and there is nothing to be afraid of either – people tend to hate those whom they envy, and most of them always envy someone. This is our nature. You need to be able to live with this.
I believe that envy is a good incentive to strive for more and succeed in life. Truth in this matter – in the matter of sex, it is better not to deviate from your own life values. For example, being devoted to your beloved woman and your family is no less important than collecting women, and from my point of view, it is much more important. But every man has his own values, his own vision of life, so I will not cultivate my point of view. being devoted to the woman you love and your family is no less important than collecting women, and from my point of view, it is much more important. But every man has his own values, his own vision of life, so I will not cultivate my point of view. being devoted to the woman you love and your family is no less important than collecting women, and from my point of view, it is much more important. But every man has his own values, his own vision of life, so I will not cultivate my point of view.
In addition, sex, or rather orgasm, like all other types of pleasure, is in some way a drug, therefore it causes a certain dependence. They want to do it over and over again, and over time they even want to add some kind of variety to their sex life, they want new, unusual sensations.
People quickly become addicted to everything that is good, pleasant and very pleasant. Therefore, if a person is used to enjoying sex, then he will strive for it constantly. Many men like to have sex with a woman without any, so to speak, obligations, and they also like to experiment in sex. It is understandable, when you do not need to bear any responsibility for anything and for anyone, and pleasure can be received constantly and in large quantities, then such a life begins to be pleasant. But not all men like her, and therefore many of them still prefer to have a family, children, and even remain faithful to their wives. For this, a man and a woman must love each other, and not just want.
In general, the problem with a man’s passion for sex begins when a man is only interested in sex and nothing else. This happens for a variety of reasons. We will talk about them in other articles. In the meantime, keep in mind, dear women, that the more primitive a man is, the least of all he is interested in life, including a woman. For example, in order to evaluate, not just notice, but evaluate a woman’s intelligence, a man himself must be an intellectually developed person. In the same way, in order to be interested in the soul of a woman, a man must adhere to certain values, higher than those values in which a man seeks only to satisfy his base animal needs. If, apart from wine, sex, cigarettes and gambling, a man is no longer interested in anything in life, do not expect him to understand your inner world, that he will see in you something more than just a female. You know that there are people, in our case, men, who simply trample the beads with their feet, so throwing it in front of them is pointless.
Also, problems with men, or rather, with their love of sex, arise in women when a man loves sex with different women, and not only, and sometimes not so much with his beloved wife, and much less often problems arise when a man loves perverted sex, which is simply unacceptable for a woman.
These problems can be solved if the man himself recognizes them and wants to change his attitude towards sex. Here, as with any other kind of pleasure, as with any other habit and addiction, you need to fight.
There is nothing wrong with sex itself, and there never has been, so you can love it and just treat it neutrally, as a most ordinary need, like, say, a need for food that just needs to be satisfied. It is bad when love for sex takes on such forms in which this love causes problems, as for a woman, and a man. And when a person has problems on sexual grounds, this is also not good, not at all good. But there is nothing wrong with these problems.
All of them are solved in my subsequent articles, I will talk about these problems and how you can deal with them.
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